Early Narcissistic Red Flags in Children
Angela Earley July 22, 2024
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Therapist Wooster, OH
1. Impact of Parental Behavior
Children absorb and mimic the behaviors they observe in their caregivers. When a child is raised in an environment where narcissistic traits are prevalent—such as excessive attention-seeking, lack of empathy, or overemphasis on personal achievement—they may adopt similar behaviors as norms. This can lead them to struggle with forming healthy relationships, as they may not learn to value or understand the importance of empathy and mutual respect​ (Psychology Today)​.
2. Consequences of Early Trauma and Conditioning
Exposure to early trauma, particularly in narcissistic family systems, often leads children to normalize chaos and dysfunction. These experiences can profoundly affect their self-worth and relationship choices later in life, making them more susceptible to entering similarly toxic relationships as adults. Recognizing and addressing these patterns early can help break the cycle of abuse and aid in the development of healthier relational patterns​ (Psychology Today)​​ (Psychology Today)​.
3. Therapeutic Interventions and Healing
Addressing these issues through therapeutic interventions can be highly beneficial. Therapy can help children and adults alike to unlearn harmful behaviors and develop healthier ways of interacting with others. Techniques such as establishing clear boundaries, improving self-esteem, and fostering a genuine self-identity are critical steps in this healing process. For children particularly, interventions that focus on developing empathy, securing attachment styles, and reinforcing positive relationship frameworks are crucial​ (Psychology Today)​​ (Psychology Today)​.
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Citation
Greenberg, E. (2023, June). Early narcissistic red flags in children. Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stress-fracture/202406/early-narcissistic-red-flags-in-children
Since 2012, Angela has been assessing clients and successfully guiding trauma treatment in her private practice using the NeuroSequential Model of Therapeutics (NMT) developed by Dr. Bruce Perry of the Child Trauma Academy. In addition, Angela has been invited to consult on multiple regional cases involving highly challenging special needs children.
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